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Chicup · 08-31-2008, 12:29 PM

I think perhaps the worst place to meet lifestyle friendly women for a relationship is the lifestyle.

I would look on regular dating sites, and as you meet the woman try to see if they are open to that sort of thing. Its the same way most of us found our swinger friendly wives.

Now in all honesty I wasn't looking for a 'swinger' when I met my wife, I did get lucky there, but were I to do it over again, I'd look for someone who was big into sex, and open about her fantasies.

I think its only a short step from being willing to talk to your partner about a 3some or moresome to actually getting her to have one.

08-31-2008, 12:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Deprived, "cheated", divorced, now what should I do? I think perhaps the worst place to meet lifestyle friendly women for a relationship is the lifestyle. I would look on regular dating sites, and as you meet the woman try to see if they are open to that sort of thing. Its the same way most of us found our swinger friendly wives. Now in all honesty I wasn't looking for a 'swinger' when I met my wife, I did get lucky there, but were I to do it over again, I'd look for someone who was big into sex, and open about her fantasies. I think its only a short step from being willing to talk to your partner about a 3some or moresome to actually getting her to have one.