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quivers4me · 08-31-2008, 10:44 AM

One thing I've learned since become active in the lifestyle is that dicks come in all shapes & sizes. For me it doesn't really matter (the very big ones are scary though) as long as there is a connection with the male.

I once had a LTR with a man who felt he was small. He was average but could not be convinced that this wasn't an issue. I was happy with him and our sex life but...over time his concern with the size of his dick really took something away from the relationship. His constant need for reassurance in this was difficult for me to deal with. He couldn't understand that there was a lot more to making love than the size of his penis.

08-31-2008, 10:44 AM	#59 (permalink)
quivers4me Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 32 Location: Idaho Status: Single/F	Re: Size of the Penis One thing I've learned since become active in the lifestyle is that dicks come in all shapes & sizes. For me it doesn't really matter (the very big ones are scary though) as long as there is a connection with the male. I once had a LTR with a man who felt he was small. He was average but could not be convinced that this wasn't an issue. I was happy with him and our sex life but...over time his concern with the size of his dick really took something away from the relationship. His constant need for reassurance in this was difficult for me to deal with. He couldn't understand that there was a lot more to making love than the size of his penis.