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Old 08-31-2008, 09:04 AM   #3 (permalink)
jjtrindc
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Default Re: Need advice on how to deliver a first contact message

It sounds to us like you are doing all the right things...at least how we like to approach and be approached. You could be more direct in terms of saying that if they are interested in you that you would be interested in meeting. I would avoid trying to suggest times/places unless you have a tight schedule or there is an interesting party coming up. Otherwise you might seem pushy. We know what it's like to be in a "slump" lol...but all slumps come to an end.

Don't adjust your profile or approach to please others. At the end of the day you want to meet couples who are interested in you for who you are as a couple. If you start changing your approach you may find that you are attracting couples that aren't necessarily your type. Keep at it, there are enough couples out there and you'll eventually connect.

In the meantime, try parties or meet n greets. And for all of you "non-responders" out there, please be courteous. We always always always respond. We really hate it when others don't.
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