[midnightplayer]

Thanks Howie, I appreciate all inputs as they relate to my failing marriage. I truly appreciate you taking the time to assist. I agree with you communicate is the key to marriage. I have suggested hormone therapists, marriage counselors, sex therapists and just talking. I agree the more we communicate that better. Our problem, hers more than mine, is she doesnt want to talk about my needs only her needs as they relate to finance, how the house looks, where will we get money to live on in retirement, and her plans for the house (landscaping, kitchen remodeling). She has never started any conversation about how we fuck in bed, she seems to not be interested at all. For a three week period I did not mention anything about sex, nothing to see if she would initiat any sexual activity, any conversation, any interest in our sexual mental health. Nothing, absolutly no interest on her part for anything sexual. This gives me a pretty good picture that she "has" checked out of anything sexual and fucks me to keep me in line. Thanks again to you and for everyone else feel free to chat and tell me what you think