[iapr]

I agree with what arvcpl said. I think about the only other thing you can do is state your travel arraingments in both profiles so that they can each be cross-referenced against each other.

In reality though I don't know if it all will really add up to a hill of beans for you in the long run. Many people that play with single guys will play with single guys whether they have permission or not and the people that don't play with single guys (which make up a huge percentage of the lifestyle) couldn't care less if you have a hall pass or not and it really won't matter how much your wife rolls out the red carpet for you to play without her. Single guys in the lifestyle are mostly extra dicks for MFMs and gangbangs anyway and since you are a traveler you may not have many opportunities for that even.

honestly, I think your best bet for both companionship as well as sex is in the vanilla world. I understand you not wanting to play with cheating women but there are a ton more legitimate single vanilla gals out there than there are single gals in the LS (and most are more attractive and have less issues) and you are an attractive guy and you most likely have some good flirting and schoozing skills so if you put yourself in a more target rich environment your chances of success are going to be better.

The single vanilla gals that hang out in hotel lounges are not there looking for people to escort them to church functions so I don't know why they wouldn't be fair game. If one does ask if you are married you could try saying you are active swingers and offer up a cell phone for authorization but my guess is for every gal that would work for, there would be another 10 that think it's creepy. I know it sounds backwards and offensive to honest swingers but more vanilla gals would probably screw you if they thought you were screwing around as opposed to playing with permission.
It could just be your little secret between your wife and you.