[arvcpl]

Since your actual question was is there anything else you can do to make yourself look more legitimate and the only I can say to that is perhaps add a line or two in your couples profile that says you travel a lot and would like to meet other people in the lifestyle while traveling and that your wife approves and that she would be willing to vouch for you.

Other than that I'd say you are doing the right things and your goals and rationales are reasonable. The bottom line reason why she has more opportunities is because she is a woman and you are a guy, it's as simple as that.

From your profile you appear to be an attractive guy and you are going about things the right way and for the right reasons. Over time you will have various degrees of success. But as all single guys in the lifestyle have an uphill battle so will you when your wife isn't with you.

The only other thing I'd suggest is if you are in an area for a length of time is she could come to visit you and you could hit a club and make some friends and some may be willing to keep in touch and network with you when she is gone.