[midnightplayer]

I really feel for you. I am in the same situation, except that I have not actually gotten naked with anyone. I feel that I will face the music when I tell her that because she is not meeting my sexual needs, I feel free to explore other sexual activites. She can come along participate, come and watch, come and sit in the car, or stay home. But she will be well aware of my naked play. You are far beyond that, and people are right you are single and searching, but stop looking for females as a search. Lead your life as you would like to without the need to consult a wife or consider anyother female person. Get on Swing Lifestyle and do a great job of developing your profile and post some tasteful pictures, Degnified, attractive and available. Get into one of the Chat rooms of Swing Lifestyle and be cheerful, conversive, and willing to chat with the men of the couples if they contact you or you contact them. You never know when someone will find you so interesting and attractive that they will include you in a mfm or house party or a meet and greet. But remember you are not as attractive in the swining world as a Unicorn ( a single bi female). The key is Remain Cool, and not agressive or appear to be too desparate. When you meet a female in the vanilla world, and you date, approach the subject of swinging and open couple sexual activity. If she objects you dont want her anyway for a LTR. Be honest and straightforward. Forget the gameplaying. Be you and make yourself attractive to everyone. Good Luck