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Originally Posted by interested-05  So far We have avoided being outted by either people we know or anything left on our computer. It will probably happen, but I'd like to know what mistakes people make and how to avoid the same mistakes. any suggestions? |
Posting pictures on AFF did us in. AFF in particular does a very impressive job of attracting "picture posters" and allowing anyone cruising the internet to view those pictures. A deadly combination for us. We had not published nudes, but the photo we did publish along with our "profile" flew around the family very quickly when one of our "adult" children "stumbled" upon our ad.
It still amazes us on the number of swinger site posters who express a strong desire for discretion, yet post very identifiable pictures and profiles. Hardly discreet!
edit: oops, forgot we had already posted on this thread! Safe to say, our position has not changed.