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Originally Posted by SexyWVcouple102  Hello all,
Well yesterday we had our first experience outside of our marrage. It was a mfm and it was great. The guy was hot and my wife really took a liking to him. The only thing is that the guy was way nervious and had some performance anxiety. He was using a condom (wouldn't have it any other way) but could not keep it up at all. He did finally get hard and cum and it was great. The only problem is that the experience was bad for my wife. She left thinking that he couldn't stay hard because he didn't like her. Keep in mind my wife is extreemly hot. She is 5'9" 125 Lbs long hair and very long legs. I havent met a man yet that hasnt wanted to have sex with her so I don't think that was an issue. It has really upset her so that she isn't sure if she wants to continue. Anyone out there with a similar experience that can help out? |
First, congratulations on your first experience!
Second, performance problems are quite common, even if all people in question are sexy, horny, etc. Check out this thread:
Performance problems
You mention the guy was nervous. Sounds like maybe it was his first experience too? Nerves, first experience, having another guy there watching him have sex with someone else, having that person be the husband of the person he's having sex with...plenty of reasons to deflate the erection.
Not to worry.
Communicate with the guy in question; tell him how great of a time you both had, and you'd like to have another experience with him. Talk with your wife and assure her that the performance problems are normal, and almost definitely have NOTHING to do with how sexy she is. There's no sense in getting worked up over performance issues; just makes it more difficult to erase the problems next time around due to anxiety!
Let us know how it goes!