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Old 08-27-2008, 01:23 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Do you ask? Do you tell?

Yes - we always ask, and to be fair, perhaps some of them would have asked us first if we hadn't beaten them to the punch.

Usually the answer we get is "we get tested once a year". We also discuss what we'd do if we ever tested positive (we'd tell them) and let them know we care about our health and we intend to stay STI negative.

How would you handle it if you tested positive for an STI - would you tell all your playmates since your last negative test? Would it be different if you are positive for HPV or HSV I or II?
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