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Originally Posted by wpafuncpl  I don't want to be a part of anyone's cheating. That's why I don't want to pick up women off of Craiglist or other single's sites/bars. That's why I mainly try the swing sites or clubs. I am very upfront about who and what I am, and do provide a link to our couples profile on Swing Lifestyle. The couples profile has several certs, and I made sure that my singles profile had a cert from an established couple that also certified us as single. |
Hold your horses there please. I'm not insinuating that you pick up some other married chick that's cheating. But you know...legitimately single people go to bars to hang out, be with friend, and hook up with people. Who says you have to be deceptive about what you are doing? Who knows, you may luck into another couple at a vanilla bar (people do tend to lower their inhibitions after a few drinks, whether it's a swing club or a vanilla one).
You asked for other opinions...mine happens to be that you are basically fighting an uphill battle by restricting yourself to Swing Lifestyle/other swingers.