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Originally Posted by wpafuncpl I am not looking to play with someone new every night or anything like that, but my assignments can last for several months or more, and I would like to find someone who is in the lifestyle when I am traveling to meet up with. Sometimes for just social rather than sexual reasons. IE – its nice to meet a single female or a couple that is interested in single males that you can hang out with and have drinks, dinner, conversation, etc., with the possibility of playtime if everyone agrees. I guess that my ideal situation would be a single female to hang out with, but couples would be ok too. Would like to meet a single female because then we could possibly check out some clubs or swing events while I was in town. |
Surly your wife must visit you over several months away
Bring her with you or get her to visit...Go to the local clubs together. Then work with that

I know I travel between Knoxville and Fort Dodge. Mrs fun likes to hook up with me. I usually have a club in mind. I haven't tried your alternative, but I don't think the Internets would be the way to go.
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I am looking on swing sites primarily because I DON’T want to play with women that are cheating. Those seem to be available on a lot of sites, but I don’t want to be involved in that kind of drama.
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Have your wife visit and meet people together

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I guess that my ultimate question is, is there anything else that I can do to make myself appear “legitimate”?
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Not on the INTERNET, unless your wife knows people from the different places you visit.