 Re: Am I missing anything?
There are some solo women on the swing sites - they are pretty easy to identify because of all the glowing certs. There are plenty of couples looking for solo guys. Only way you are going to have a shot is to change your location on your solo profile to where you're going to be, and re-write your profile special for the location. Then try emailing the people you find interesting. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Do you refer to your couples' profile in your single profile, so people can look it up? Does your couples' profile say that you also play solo?
By our way of thinking, if a guy is a cheater he isn't going to say he is married playing with permission. Opens a big can of worms - a lot of people would want to talk with the wife on the phone (if he is a cheater that would be hard to do.) The whole situation could put people off, because confirming with your wife might seem like a hassle.
Make things as easy as you possibly can for your prospective playmates. Timing and availability is everything.
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