ShagUsThx - Yeah the performance thing wasn't even mentioned during our fun and if I noticed it happening then I just paid extra attention doing something he loved..however with the other male that was a little harder as I wasn't sure what he liked or didn't like! Kind of just let the female half of the other couple take over
SecretAsianMan - No he, or the other male were certainly not made to feel bad...I did ask him during our 'debriefing' on the way home if it was because he had seen something he wasn't comfortable with or perhaps he really wasn't ok even though he said he was when I asked during the session. He seemed to think after a bit of thought that perhaps it was sensory overload
Thanks for the replies!
Cheers, K&T