 Re: Baby steps or dive head first into the experience?
Personally, I had to take baby steps. Heck, I'm still taking them.
But I totally agree that it is all about your own personal comfort level.
Hubby could (and did, in his previous relationship) just jump right in. That is his personality and his mindset.
Me, I'm a bit more cautious and methodical. So rather than just jumping in the river, I stick my toe in, check it out and if it feels ok, then my foot goes in, if that feels ok- then I'll ease out into the water... LOL |