Nice! Happy to hear of your success. My wife and I were lucky in connecting early on as well. I had the same impression, that it was a rarity. Me and the other man had the same erection issues, but my wife suggested just taking a deep breath and chilling out for a few. I think you do get overloaded and need to regroup a little. We just all snuggled up and the close intimate touching along with the mental calm really helped. It all worked out in the end. I think it is like anything else... just takes practice! We like practice