[willyoats]

When we started swinging possible pregnancy was our principal concern, so guys who were not safe were asked to use condoms. Only one ever objected (for the same reason mentioned in the next paragraph).

On the other hand, I had had a vasectomy, and I have never even been asked to use a condom. That is fortunate because I, like some others we know, can not seem to use them. We go limp.

For several years now, I have had vaginal intercourse with only one partner other than my wife, always without protection. She is still having sex with many others besides me but has never had anything worse than yeast infections. She is tested four times a year when she donates blood.

There is no doubt that there is a health risk out there in the swinging community, so protection is wise. However, there are certainly still lots of couples in swinging who are perfectly safe to play with bareback.