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Originally posted by SexhoundDog
I guess my question is this. Should I press this any more or how would be a good way to get her to bring it up more open? I’m curious as to where enjoying a fantasy ends and perhaps wanting to taste reality takes over. Also, I assume it would make the most sense to let her do the selection? What seemed to work for you?? |
First thing is to decide if you want to do this. Talk talk talk, then try reading penthouse letters together or stories in literotica.com
I'll pick one out or have my girl pick one out, then I tease and play with her with toys and/or my body parts whilst she reads it out loud. It becomes a bit of a contest to see if she can read it or if I can make her lose control. ;0
Once(if) you decide to go for it, select the pidgeon, er playmate, together. You both have to be comfortable with him. In my experience the decent guys will require assurance from the male as well as the female that this is ok. So be sure to make it clear that you want this for her too. Though I do love to watch, most of the time we share together, especially at the beginning. In our case, we are in several bdsm clubs so finding a horny guy for a third was pretty easy. Same for females
and couples. Basically, look around. Just about any single guy will jump at the chance.
OH, geez. MOST IMPORTANT, which is why its down here and not up there. You must discuss all the potential problems as well as the advantages. Is pregmancy a possibility? What will you do if bc fails and she ends up pregnant? What if she gets a disease despite your safegaurds? What if she changes her mind at the last minute. What if the guy turns out not to be what you thought? All these are things to think about beforehand. I don't want to scare you off, but better safe than sorry.
In my personal opinion, sharing pleasures with others adds a dimension to our lives that is quite satisfying. We could live without it, but with reasonable caution and good communication all is well.
J