I think you need to seriously sort your life out. Thats some killer bud you must be smoking there. Its got both of your brain cells you have left, in conflict..... It happens, ya know.
Let this other couple have some time to themselves. They need it and he deserves you out of the picture.
Your wife of six years whom you have known for ten years wants some children and now you need to dump her. Well, cry someone els a river. You fell in love with a chat friend..... ?
I can see why you had to post anonymously
Dude, Its called shame !!