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Mr.Essex · 08-17-2008, 09:40 PM

Here's a few nuggets of advice, for those of you who are looking to swing with single men.

1. Check both hands. Depending on the person's background, he may wear his wedding band on his right hand. Europeans are notorious for this practice
(engagement/wedding rings on the right hand)

2. Look for the quieter and/or shyer men. The more boisterous the man, the more likely there's an angry, confused or "frigid" SO in his life (IMO). Single men, especially the experienced ones, are more likely to survey the room beore choosing a "target" (even when we're hornier than a farmer's toenails). But, the guy who's flirting with every female who crosses his path, dancing with anyone who catches his eye or taking every opportunity to touch/grope the women in his arm's reach is usually a man who's grown accustomed to regular sex. More than likely with a wife or girlfriend.

08-17-2008, 09:40 PM	#19 (permalink)
Mr.Essex Shy but brave Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 116 Location: Dullsville, North Dakota Status: Single male SLS Name:MrEssex	Re: How do you know if they are actually single? Here's a few nuggets of advice, for those of you who are looking to swing with single men. 1. Check both hands. Depending on the person's background, he may wear his wedding band on his right hand. Europeans are notorious for this practice (engagement/wedding rings on the right hand) 2. Look for the quieter and/or shyer men. The more boisterous the man, the more likely there's an angry, confused or "frigid" SO in his life (IMO). Single men, especially the experienced ones, are more likely to survey the room beore choosing a "target" (even when we're hornier than a farmer's toenails). But, the guy who's flirting with every female who crosses his path, dancing with anyone who catches his eye or taking every opportunity to touch/grope the women in his arm's reach is usually a man who's grown accustomed to regular sex. More than likely with a wife or girlfriend.