The wife and I are still green as grass in the lifestyle, but I felt compelled to add my own experience. We had talked about the whole swinging thing a few years ago, even looked up some local clubs etc at the time. We sort of let it drop for various reasons, mostly because we had no time in our schedules for anything like swinging. Recently, my wife and I went to Florida Bike Week for our first real vacation in 10 years, and rediscovered how much fun we have together when we are out. Added to that freedom, she had a somewhat risque encounter with another woman, which got us talking about finding people to let it all hang out with. Let me tell you, that was the best trip in a car I've ever had. 15 hours of my wife with sex on the brain.
To say that my wife is not one to do things by halves should let you know how our first club trip went. We're a long way from ironing out all the wrinkles, but we're having a ball doing it!