You are listening to society's little voices in your head or perhaps your parents if you had a strict upbringing. Say this to yourself, "Sex is good, sex is fun, sex is not necessarily about love. I am not a bad person for enjoying my sexuality. The things I have been taught about that are wrong. I am a good, loving, attractive person and my husband values me even more for this."
And keep saying that to yourself until you have internalized it more than those other voices.
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