The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Playing with a couple who doesn't use protection

safireblues · 08-16-2008, 09:27 PM

I don't understand when people require "selective". You can get stds from one person as easily as 10 people.

I am "oral only", particularly because I'm not comfortable with any risks surrounding intercourse. From oral, you can get herpes, and other infections you can treat with an antibiotic. The risk of HIV is something like .04%. I am comfortable with that risk.

The risks with intercourse are much greater, specifically for HIV. I know condoms don't protect you from skin to skin infections, but I do believe that because of HIV, if you are having anal or vaginal intercourse with someone who is not your spouse, you should use a condom.

I wouldn't require other people to feel as I do, but I would require any person to use a condom with me.

08-16-2008, 09:27 PM	#21 (permalink)
safireblues Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 102 Location: Philadelphia Status: Married Female	Re: Playing with a couple who doesn't use protection I don't understand when people require "selective". You can get stds from one person as easily as 10 people. I am "oral only", particularly because I'm not comfortable with any risks surrounding intercourse. From oral, you can get herpes, and other infections you can treat with an antibiotic. The risk of HIV is something like .04%. I am comfortable with that risk. The risks with intercourse are much greater, specifically for HIV. I know condoms don't protect you from skin to skin infections, but I do believe that because of HIV, if you are having anal or vaginal intercourse with someone who is not your spouse, you should use a condom. I wouldn't require other people to feel as I do, but I would require any person to use a condom with me.