[ShagUsThx]

Thanks SecretAsianMan...

Your words are so wise. It is amazing to me how this whole thing is really opening up some serious communication lines, not only with the wife, but with the people you get involved with. Open is the key word and honesty is a must. I think being honest with yourself is probably one of the most important things, that way you will get out of it exactly what you want. Another good one is patience is a virtue for sure!