It all started when my wife started watching Swingtown.... I did not even know about this show, but she was watching it apparently getting all kinds of ideas in her head. Finally those producer types did something right!
So one night we had some friends over and we had a great night of regular vanilla type fun and games and we all went to bed (separately). Well Im not sure what are friends were up to, but the wife and I got down to business. While having wonderful sex, she starts talking all dirty about how she wants to have her way with our friends and all the details of what would happen. Then it was my turn to tell her what I wanted to do and what I liked about their bodies. Ha! I could not believe my ears.... This was our first "conversation" and her way of finding out where my head was with this type of activity.
The next week was non-stop text messages (sexts) about this new subject. So now I'm super turned on, I mean I was rock hard for a week straight! (Not easy at work!) I HAD to do something to try and make this happen, so I created a profile on swinglifestyle and looked around. I wasn't finding much of anything and was about to give up when WHA? Who are they??? I got up the nerve to send them an invite to a public place where there was a neat event going on. I figured it was a pretty safe meet up for both couples since we could easily call it off if we did not click and disappear into the night. They responded back and were interested in meeting, since I had no pics on my profile (I know...) I sent them a picture of so they could see if they liked how we looked. We hit it off picture wise. They wanted to meet, but they already had plans, but would stop by if they could. Fast forward to the event, I'm busy working on this and that and talking to people when all of a sudden.... there they are and they are lookin' hot! We end up really getting along and went out to a few places before ending up at our house. We hung out and talked and did some sexy dancing... just kind of got to know each other. We did that till 5 am; we all had this nervous sexy tension, but that was it for the first encounter.
We have a really cool relationship forming with this couple and have been with them 2 more times since. The second time we did some soft swapping and there was the hottest FF action happening.... The third time we had some great hot tub fun and then moved inside. His wifey was tired and they had early obligations so she went to bed
However, the three of us had the most sensual MFM experience. I never knew how pleasurable it could be watching another man wielding his sexy sword upon my wife as she sharpened my sword at the same time (sword play
). We were all so comfortable together, I had no ill feelings and I actually enjoyed his touch and touching him as we all helped brace and encourage each other through this unbelievable experience.
I do have to admit I had some sword troubles, but as usual my wife had the wisdom. She said just relax and lets all spoon and caress each other. You know take a breath and mellow out. Well that was the key... all the soft touching and warm bodies really got both us guys back in action. It all takes getting used to, but as I have read the wisdom of many people in the lifestyle..... Take it slow and it will all work out if you let it!
Sorry if that was a long one, but I just had to vent all this steam building up over here! I'm sure there will be more stories in the future. I just feel so right about how this all came about and already our marriage has stepped up to a whole new level of communication and trust. This stuff is not for everyone, but if it is WOW is all I have to say to those who dare.
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