The Swingers Board - View Single Post - First time experience was a bad one.

J & K · 08-10-2008, 04:27 PM

First it is not the club owners to screen who puts condoms on. We are all adults in this lifestyle and it is everybodys responsiblities to make sure safe sex happens. It all falls down to you and your wife to make sure all the right steps are taken.

When I saw you didn't stop the event I asked "why"? If I saw some dude doing that with my wife and sneaked off the protection I would of stopped it right there....temper or not. You still let it happen when it all comes down to it. So that guy and you were at fault in a nutshell. Others around you would of understood if you wanted to raise hell about it. At least that would of been a great warning signal for others on that night to beware of this guys behavior. On the other hand he is just stupid himself by not protecting himself. That tells you something about the guy and his lady. WOW!!! We would be scared as hell for a while if this happened to us, but I sure would of decked the guy anyways even if it meant us being thrown out of the club.

08-10-2008, 04:27 PM	#20 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 192 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	Re: First time experience was a bad one. First it is not the club owners to screen who puts condoms on. We are all adults in this lifestyle and it is everybodys responsiblities to make sure safe sex happens. It all falls down to you and your wife to make sure all the right steps are taken. When I saw you didn't stop the event I asked "why"? If I saw some dude doing that with my wife and sneaked off the protection I would of stopped it right there....temper or not. You still let it happen when it all comes down to it. So that guy and you were at fault in a nutshell. Others around you would of understood if you wanted to raise hell about it. At least that would of been a great warning signal for others on that night to beware of this guys behavior. On the other hand he is just stupid himself by not protecting himself. That tells you something about the guy and his lady. WOW!!! We would be scared as hell for a while if this happened to us, but I sure would of decked the guy anyways even if it meant us being thrown out of the club.