[eve99]

Wow, thank you all for the advice. I didn't expect to get so many responses to this and I guess I need to give some clarification on the parts of this that I left a little foggy in first post. I realize mentioning an old boyfriend conjures up all kinds of unsavory images but I should say it is a little more innocent than that and they are better described as old friends than ex lovers. They went to school together and dated for a short while during JR high (we're young) and they never did have real strong feelings for each other. As far as how they hooked back up...well, they really just ran into each other and she later started teasing him via text message (with my permission) and things went from there. She did tell him early on that our relationship is a bit "different" and that I have given her permission to play and he made it clear that he is not trying to make a move. They both just like how taboo what they are doing is. What he doesn't know is that I know the specifics of what they have been up to, just that they talk. We were actually going to tell him but he expressed concern to her about me knowing everything and worry about how I might react so we just decided to keep that to ourselves. Probably not the best idea in hindsight but we didn't want to cause any embarrassment. (I have respected the privacy of pictues etc. and just get an overview from the wife) Anyway, I hope that rant sheds a little more light. I'm not worried about old feelings coming back or her getting hurt, mostly about word getting out and of course STD's.