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Originally Posted by LokisFemaleHalf  So, I want to go to a very upscale hotel and spend a couple of days having a great time with a fuck-buddy. Is it risky? Well, isn't life? I find greater risk in the drive there. My husband and I have talked and worked this out. It is a fit for our sexual desires. Just because we are choosing not to start with the lifestyle does not mean we are doing anything wrong. |
Ya know reading over your threads again I see more clearly where you guys are coming from. Maybe not the conventional swinging lifestyle is your goal but none the less an alternative lifestyle is at hand. I really hope this goes well, it sure looks like on your part you have your minds in the right setting. Your looking at having some experiences in life. Something to look forward to, then look back on as well. Like Mrs.fun always tells me, sometimes things change. Its those things we adjust to.
Looking at this I can offer advice perhaps that I haven't seen mentioned.
Sometimes people don't show up ! Honestly, single males on the INTERNET take the lead. So with that, have you made arrangements. I know we found out early. Rather than spend time worrying about all the things that might have happened or why this didn't happen the way we planned, its still about us.
I mean sometimes in the beginning. Making arrangements over the INTERNET. It was like, we were all pumped up and then a big olé let down. We actually had a few setbacks with our own sex lives over it
. Were not perfect swingers. Hopefully this fantasy comes to life but its only our experience that keeps us prepared. We move on, chances may come again. We have had a few of those lavish hotel meetings not work out..... That room is for us now
we don't worry about them. Just food for thought
