Ya know, I can relate to your situation somewhat. I don't know if this is the case for you but...
I think for us, with couples in the beginning I had some shared feelings. My wife Mrs.fun, puts allot into sex. I think that left me with somehow comparing whats going on over there, to whats going on over here with me. On one hand I felt like this woman doesn't want to be doing this or maybe I'm not really what she wanted. I was just acceptable enough to give it a try. Then on the other hand I thought.... Wait a minute, I don't want to feel or be compared to someone els, while I am having sex. It seemed like I was being unfair to the woman I was with. Just because Mrs.fun is putting a little more on the wild side over there doesn't mean the woman I'm with is going to.
In the beginning I thought we all do it the same way. Well thats sorta true, but I took some of the responsibility on myself to get more in tune with the woman I was with. Listening to and understanding, what these new partners wanted was pretty important. Sometimes Its all out wild sex, some women want to just feel relaxed and pleasured. Some even like to be.... showy. I think it is important to understand these things.
So I wouldn't just say no to a second time around, you might have missed something like I did. Get to know the gal your with a little more, maybe she wasn't getting what she hoped for and didn't know how to explain things. They obviously like you guys. Maybe she felt she wasn't getting what she was wanting. I would in this case ask her what she hopes for or perhaps want to do different. If you chose to play again with them. It doesn't hurt to ask. Communication is pretty important with women your going to play with. Just like with our own partners. Sometimes very little needs said, some are givers and some are receivers. I know when a woman wants to play the second time around and I felt things weren't great or something just wasn't quite right. I ask, what could I do to make this better for you ? Do you feel like you were getting your needs met.. Then I listen. And I have gotten some incredibly wild sex in return, the second time... and more
I know going to the clubs and trying new things are also a great way to explore and you should have a blast from what I'm seeing. Let us know how that goes for sure, Thanks for posting
