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arvcpl · 08-06-2008, 07:41 PM

There are more red flags here than will be flying at the summer olympics.

It is not usual that you have a fantasy of her being with other guys, heck we all have that to one degree or another. But having her travel and spend the night with an old flame is just asking for trouble.

Everyone else has pointed out the potential pitfalls and problems so I will say to take that all to heart.

What I would like to point out is that you would probably enjoy it more if you were there first hand and involved in it rather than just sitting home while she rekindles her old flame. It is real common for people to want to start out with people they know and already have some kind of rapport with but it is almost always a bad idea.

My advice is to look for actual swingers through normal swinger channels like swinger websites and clubs and parties etc. There are tons of single guys that would love to come service her while you watch and or participate.

Keep your marriage intact and do this as a couple rather than let her go back to the arms of a previous love.

08-06-2008, 07:41 PM	#11 (permalink)
arvcpl Has Left the Building Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 172 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: letting the wife fly solo? There are more red flags here than will be flying at the summer olympics. It is not usual that you have a fantasy of her being with other guys, heck we all have that to one degree or another. But having her travel and spend the night with an old flame is just asking for trouble. Everyone else has pointed out the potential pitfalls and problems so I will say to take that all to heart. What I would like to point out is that you would probably enjoy it more if you were there first hand and involved in it rather than just sitting home while she rekindles her old flame. It is real common for people to want to start out with people they know and already have some kind of rapport with but it is almost always a bad idea. My advice is to look for actual swingers through normal swinger channels like swinger websites and clubs and parties etc. There are tons of single guys that would love to come service her while you watch and or participate. Keep your marriage intact and do this as a couple rather than let her go back to the arms of a previous love.