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Originally Posted by good times  I agree with what most of the others have said.
I would ask yourself, is the fulfillment of this sexual fantasy worth losing your wife over?
The reason that question is so important is that, I believe, that is the most likely outcome in the end. Their are so many more reasons this can go wrong than have been presented here so far. Best case scenario, this might work out and fulfill your fantasy. Worst case, the guy may go postal when he finds out he has been used and your wife, or both of you, may end up injured or dead. More likely, it will end up being an ugly situation in between the two extremes that you will both regret for the rest of your lives.
No, this is one of those things that is best left as a fantasy, or a fictitious article in Penthouse letters, in my opinion, the risk just is in no way worth the reward. |
I have to agree with this.
I'm sure this kind of lifestyle can work for a small % of people, I think its really asking for a lot of trouble. Now most vanillas say the same thing about swinging, but the difference is the togetherness aspect in swinging and the solo aspect here. We are at a point in swinging where we can and do play alone with a few couples, but it took a lot of communication and understanding to get to that point, and even now we won't play solo 1-1.
Remember love is a chemical reaction you really can't control. When it happens you might find yourself on the wrong side of the emotional equation with your wife and her ex.