[good times]

I agree with what most of the others have said.

I would ask yourself, is the fulfillment of this sexual fantasy worth losing your wife over?

The reason that question is so important is that, I believe, that is the most likely outcome in the end. Their are so many more reasons this can go wrong than have been presented here so far. Best case scenario, this might work out and fulfill your fantasy. Worst case, the guy may go postal when he finds out he has been used and your wife, or both of you, may end up injured or dead. More likely, it will end up being an ugly situation in between the two extremes that you will both regret for the rest of your lives.

No, this is one of those things that is best left as a fantasy, or a fictitious article in Penthouse letters, in my opinion, the risk just is in no way worth the reward.