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Originally Posted by eve99 
By chance she recently came into contact with an old boyfriend and for the last month they have been having some pretty steamy sessions via text/pic messaging. This guy thinks I don't know about any of this, he just flirts with my wife and she tells me about it then we have amazing sex. Next month she is traveling and is going to stay overnight at his place. We are completely honest with each other and she won't do anything without my permission, I am told that he is a major playboy so I'm sure his intentions are for a one night stand. I guess at this point I'm just confused and not sure if letting her play is a good idea or not. Have any of you had experience like this, any advice?
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I haven't had any experience with what you've described. However, I believe there has been some threads posted by couples who have done (or are thinking about doing) this very thing.
What you have been doing thus far is making this old boyfriend think your wife is cheating on you. Is that a turn on for you? Does it play into the excitement of all this? Does it bother you at all to have men think your wife cheats on you?
Lots of questions, but they are pertinent to your plans for the future.
It sounds like you are interested in a cuckold relationship. There are couples who are into this.
I think you should consider how the exboyfriend may react if he finds out you duped him into thinking your wife is having an affair with him. I don't know that all guys would be too happy about that, but who knows, this is out of my playing field.
He may want to continue the "affair" with your wife. How would you handle that?
Maybe you can share why you didn't tell the guy you're open to sharing your wife with him, and that you and your wife do so only with permission and honesty with each other.
Welcome to the Board, btw!
LM