[eve99]

Hi all, the wife and I are new to all this and still feeling things out. We have talked and shared fantasies about swapping etc. for well over a year but have only had one experience...we were too intoxicated to remember much so I don't really count that one. The thing that got us started down this road in the first place is that other men wanting/looking at my wife and the fantasy of her pleasing other guys turns me on to no end. I never could understand why I feel this way rather than getting angry like most guys... but there you have it. We have experimented with the idea of her playing alone by her hanging out with guy friends and being flirtatious but nothing ever came of it so we put the idea to rest. By chance she recently came into contact with an old boyfriend and for the last month they have been having some pretty steamy sessions via text/pic messaging. This guy thinks I don't know about any of this, he just flirts with my wife and she tells me about it then we have amazing sex. Next month she is traveling and is going to stay overnight at his place. We are completely honest with each other and she won't do anything without my permission, I am told that he is a major playboy so I'm sure his intentions are for a one night stand. I guess at this point I'm just confused and not sure if letting her play is a good idea or not. Have any of you had experience like this, any advice?