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Originally Posted by CallMeLoki  Wow...what a post. Ya know, if I thought there was ANY possibility of anything REMOTELY resembling harm coming to my wife, I would certainly say "No!" to the whole thing. My wife is a naturally suspicious woman, much moreso than me...she's even had difficulties trusting me at times (and with no concrete reasons). She doesn't have any concerns at all that she would be in harm's way...and I trust her judgement.
Regardless, thanks for the candid post.
Loki |
Yeah and Ted Bundy used to walk Ann Rule (author of The Stranger Beside Me and personal friend of Ted's) to her car after work at night because "there are weirdos out there."
Ok we all take some risk when we meet someone online but my main point is if you are interested in the lifestyle there are several tried and true means of meeting like-minded people and the people on this board have been recommending those standard methods but you are stuck on some psycho 22 year old who's only form of sexual expression is cyber sex talk with a 43 year old woman 200 miles away.
Look, what you two do in the privacy of your bedroom is your business and if your wife wants to play school-marm with some socially awkward and sexually repressed nerd-boy that is between the three of you and whatever kind of twisted arraingments you come up with. But you came onto a swingers message board and are asking experienced swingers for advice and they are giving you their advice based on their experience and knowledge and you are choosing to ignore it. It's your choice.