The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Emotional & logistical problems of an open marriage(was:MFM then FMF for starters?)

arvcpl · 08-04-2008, 10:01 PM

I think you two are sounding nuttier the longer this thread continues. The only half way sensible thing you have said throughout this whole discussion is that you may check out a LS club to watch and "test the waters." That is a rational and reastic thing to do.

Having some desparate 22 year old you never met drive 200 miles to get sex lessons with your wife alone is just downright dumb if not even dangerous. Haven't you ever seen "To Catch a Preditor" on TV? I guess 13 year old girls aren't the only ones that need to be warned about internet preditors.

You are even contridicting yourself. You say that can't see yourself going to a club together as couple because you wouldn't know someone well enough and have a connection with someone but yet you are going to have your wife meet a complete stranger by herself? Am I the only seeing the disconnect here or is there something I'm missing?

You have been given a lot of good advice here by people that are real swingers and have been out in the real world. They are telling you to reconsider this and you keep digging yourself deeper into this wacky situation.

I wish you well and I hope your wife doesn't get stashed into some crawlspace somewhere.

08-04-2008, 10:01 PM	#19 (permalink)
arvcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 124 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: Newbies: MFM, then FMF for starters? I think you two are sounding nuttier the longer this thread continues. The only half way sensible thing you have said throughout this whole discussion is that you may check out a LS club to watch and "test the waters." That is a rational and reastic thing to do. Having some desparate 22 year old you never met drive 200 miles to get sex lessons with your wife alone is just downright dumb if not even dangerous. Haven't you ever seen "To Catch a Preditor" on TV? I guess 13 year old girls aren't the only ones that need to be warned about internet preditors. You are even contridicting yourself. You say that can't see yourself going to a club together as couple because you wouldn't know someone well enough and have a connection with someone but yet you are going to have your wife meet a complete stranger by herself? Am I the only seeing the disconnect here or is there something I'm missing? You have been given a lot of good advice here by people that are real swingers and have been out in the real world. They are telling you to reconsider this and you keep digging yourself deeper into this wacky situation. I wish you well and I hope your wife doesn't get stashed into some crawlspace somewhere.