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Originally Posted by interested-05  ... you cant write off both spouses on your taxes. |
That's a pity though. Ok, I missed that as a joke.
jdavisauto, I understand what you are saying. The difference between sex and making love. I have stated on this board before that sharing Gator sexually was easy. Sharing him emotionally was not easy for me.
For the most part, we are raised and live in a monogamous world. It can be difficult shedding those perceptions and teachings. Even if it is something you want to do and have been doing for years. Each of us have what I've heard called "monogamous moments" occasionally. I've stated mine is usually in the form of jealousy. But that is ALWAYS a symptom of something else. Most of the time it is because something has made me feel insecure about something. Not always my relationship with Gator. I
hate an insecure feeling.
Poly isn't for everyone just as swinging isn't for everyone. They are two different worlds that happen to overlap upon occasion. Everyone needs to find what makes them happy and rejoice in that.
Vol