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Originally Posted by bonesray My wife and I have been married for 30 years. We entered the lifestyle early last year. Last night she asked me if she was the best lover I had ever had. We have always been honest with each other, so I answered no. She is upset with me.
No matter how much I tell her I love her, she is hurt.
I would love to have some feedback from you.
Is your spouse the best lover you have ever had? |
I couldn't help noticing that you haven’t gotten a lot of helpful input as to your dilemma with your wife’s hurt feelings. But as far as what you have gotten what have been the best insights?
I am also curious if you have spoken with your wife in depth about why she is not the best ”lover” you have ever had. BTW, why isn’t she?
Have you guys ever worked together on getting to where she is you best lover? What could she do?
And now for the BIG question - are YOU her best lover? Why or why not? And please give her answer not yours...
