Our first experience was great. We knew the other couple well, and while we'd made the decision to try swinging whether we ever hooked up with them or not, I'm glad they were our first. I was never particularly worried about any feelings of jealousy, but I couldn't have told you exactly how I'd feel 'till it happened.
And I was very turned on by seeing Mr. Sweet with our friend & her hubby. I lovedf hearing her noises and knowing my honey was getting her off--'cause I know how good what he was doing to her feels. My reaction was to grab a toy and get myself off while I watched them . .
So just try to go into things with an open attitude and be aware of your feelings. I hope it's a great experience for ya'll.
=)