 Re: Dating Challenges
This is a tough question, And finding a full answer will only come as you grow and mature, and hopefully learn from the mistakes others, as well as your own. My answer is short, but there are others who can help you sort things out, which is what this board is all about.
ok, you are young, single, and sensual. Most of the guys expect you are not a virgin anyway. its possible these guys simply wanted to play with you and you gave them a good excuse to drop you. Others will find it as a good excuse to keep seeing you. As the old saying goes, "buyer beware"
That being said, in love and war, "Discretion is the better part of valor", Be choosey about what you tell about yourself to whom, judiciously discover what this person is all about. It may be that they harbor a desire to explore the lifestyle, themselves. They may not. Telling all in the first month is less important than discovering what we are looking for in a long term relationship.
Eventually who you and they are sexually, will become very important. your ability to be honest with each other, followed by the trust you have built between yourselves must be nutured, and takes Time.
the story of the lives we create, is ours to build. Take it one step at a time, and discover what it is you want out of life. |