 Re: Dating Challenges
susan here-- You are not being punished for being honest. What you are doing is sifting out the men who simply won't work out. It just happens sooner rather than later. And, sooner is much better than later.
Besides, who needs some guy who you have been seeing only a month and assumes you'll be 'cheating'. First, it's pretty arrogant to think after one month he would have a stack of rights to fidelity.
Lastly, how nice are these guys really ? One just stops calling, the other guy tries to control who you see. These aren't nice guys at all.
I told Ed that I had group sex the first time he asked me for a date. It never bothered him, since from his perspective, as long as I was single, I had my options always open to my choices. The only thing to do was be honest in all things.
I married this wonderful man and now we have Swing play together. How cool is that ?! |