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Close friends I would tell in a heartbeat because I would want them to tell me. Otherwise I would mind my own business and avoid playing with them. That said I give them credit for telling you.

The thing is I may continue to swing if we had it but all play partners would be told way in advance in the hopes of finding somebody who already has it. I don't think I could play with a couple even if they didn't have a problem with it. I wouldn't want that on my conscience.

Think about it, it would really really suck if you had it and couldn't play anymore. Who knows, if they are lucky they may find somebody who already has it and then everybody is happy. I have seen profiles on Swing Lifestyle where they mentioned it up front. So I have no right to say somebody with HPV should not swing at all. But swing "events"-I agree with you completely.