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SecretAsianMan · 07-28-2008, 12:12 PM

It's a tough thing - but both you and your partner need to make it clear that "bareback" is not something y'all are into. I've been in situations similar to that & always stuck around to make sure anyone my partner was with kept a condom on throughout ... even if that meant I needed to forego playing with other people for a while. (Usually it just meant I would be getting serviced orally by my partner while they had intercourse with her)

It's one of those "dangers" you need to keep an eye out on. Most guys are fine with wearing protection ('cuz it's not just your gal that is being protected - the guys are protecting themselves from your gal) ...after all, if y'all have never been together before & aren't familiar with one another - who knows what y'all are bringing to play, right??

I hope that this was just a one-time "bad experience" and y'all will continue to have a good time in the lifestyle. Remember - you need to communicate to ALL your partners (and be aware yourself) of the type of interaction that's going on.

Be safe & enjoy.

07-28-2008, 12:12 PM	#17 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: First time experience was a bad one. It's a tough thing - but both you and your partner need to make it clear that "bareback" is not something y'all are into. I've been in situations similar to that & always stuck around to make sure anyone my partner was with kept a condom on throughout ... even if that meant I needed to forego playing with other people for a while. (Usually it just meant I would be getting serviced orally by my partner while they had intercourse with her) It's one of those "dangers" you need to keep an eye out on. Most guys are fine with wearing protection ('cuz it's not just your gal that is being protected - the guys are protecting themselves from your gal) ...after all, if y'all have never been together before & aren't familiar with one another - who knows what y'all are bringing to play, right?? I hope that this was just a one-time "bad experience" and y'all will continue to have a good time in the lifestyle. Remember - you need to communicate to ALL your partners (and be aware yourself) of the type of interaction that's going on. Be safe & enjoy.