We have a couple of vanilla friends that know about us. One of them used to be a client of mine and I have posted on here before on how he found out about us. Another one is a guy that I have known for a long time and we actually had him and his wife come on to us...well before they got divorced that is.
We have another set of friends that we are almost positive know about us since they know we have been to Hedo, but they don't ever ask anything to us. They have asked a few questions about the resort, but that is it.
We are like many others here, we have many "inside" jokes and comments that we make between MrsVan and myself that if anyone had actually looked into the LS, they would catch on in a hurry. We have one other set of friends we think are on the fringe of the LS. They are really nice folks and we have just started to get to know them better over the past 6 months or so. We met in a vanilla situation, but they are just way to strange to be "normal".
We don't say anything to our friends about our choices and we definately don't say anything to family about it. We wish we could because it would be sooooo much easier, but we just don't want the hassle of dealing with the family bullshit.
-Van