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Originally Posted by Chitowndk4u  I feel safe with her knowing and she is actually encouraging us to explore it. |
we have/had a friend like this. she would be more eager than us about our potential hook ups etc. that was until our first full swap. she pressed for details, and the whole "enormity" of it hit her. since then she's only showed interest in our swing lives in the hope that it's tearing us apart, or that we're not as into it/we're going to quit.
for instance, she "innocently" drove past our house early sunday morning to see if we were at a party. she saw the car home and assumed we were home, so texted us, saying "called past your house because we were in the area (*we know that's not true, our place is so far out the way of ANYTHING that she'd had to go out of her way to call past*), noticed you were home... how come you haven't gone to a swingers party in a while? has it got too much for you guys"... our reply "we're at one right now, we got a lift from the couple we hooked up with on friday night". needless to say, we haven't heard from her since
