from Oklahoma, Truckerwife! We're glad you've joined us!
We see no red flags in a relationship that has lasted a year and a half with good communication. It's the ability to share ideas that matters, not how long y'all have been together. Some couples who've stayed together for thirty years don't communicate well enough to swing.
Mrs. Alura and I were ready to swing on our second date but didn't realize it until our drive back to her place from the home of the first couple to offer us the experience. We wished then that we had known each other well enough to say, "Yes!"
Keep talking and sharing ideas. You may never get to a point that y'all will want to swing, but your marriage will be spectacular!
Mr. Alura