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Originally Posted by mrs truckerwife  Thank you for the reply.... We have been together for a little over a year and a half altogether. From the very start of our relationship we have always communicated our feelings and thoughts to eachother. Are the bits of info true about the woman with a high libido enjoying an enviornment like this? Iwas told several times by my past and present partner that I am basically a nympho.... I am asking partly because I feel it would help me get past a part of my apprehensiveness. |
I really don't think libido actually has anything to do with it at all. I think it is a myth and misperception that people have that swingers are somehow hornier or more sexual than nonswingers.
IMHO the lifestyle and swinging as a couple really don't have anything to do with libido or hornyness. What makes people "flourish" in the lifesyle is enjoying another facet of their sexuality and being in an environment where they are around other likeminded people and don't have to hide who they are sexually. That would apply as well to someone has a low libido as much as someone with a high libido.
We don't swing because we are any hornier than any other couple. In many ways we are probably less horny than a lot of couples and 98% of our daily lives is quite nonsexual. We swing with other couples now and then because we enjoy the extra stimulation and excitement that another set of hands/mouths/genitalia etc can provide and we enjoy being around other that enjoy the same things as we do and share similar interests.