 Re: what mistake outted you?
If you are worried about being outed, be very, very careful about which vanilla friends or family you tell your secret to.
While they may be very good at keeping your secrets, this is a Super Special Secret, and thus increases their need to tell someone. I mean, for most folks, finding out a friend actually swings is the ultimate gossip tidbit.
So, while they may be reliable, there's a good chance it will come up in pillow-talk with their spouse. Then, it's out, and the spouse may not be very discreet with this newfound knowledge.
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