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Old 07-25-2008, 03:43 AM   #24 (permalink)
ktimephoenix
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Join Date: May 2008
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Location: Adelaide Australia
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Default Re: Telling close friends that you're swinging?

Exactly SandJinVT. there is dishonesty, and there is discretion. we had decline an invitation with some vanilla friends this weekend because we'd made plans with a couple that we met through some swinging parties from interstate.

our vanilla friends (they know we swing), flat out asked us if we were meeting up with them just for sex. we were meeting them for dinner and to show them around town, so our friends didn't "need" to know any more about the other couple than that we were going for dinner, on the small chance we run into each other while out.

Hope you enjoy your trip over here. i hate to go all one eyed with pride, but it's a pretty spectacular (naturally) place, and most people are laid back and genuinely friendly. you should have a ball!
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