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Originally Posted by SAMnTINA  We found the right couple before we ever started swinging. It's us togther. Everything else is just sex and fun. We just don't understand all those who are skip meeting and or playing with other looking for that perfact match.
We found a perfact match once and then again we only started dating 30 years ago in college because we were each looking for some fun, not for life partners. Heck when she told her mother a Jewish guy (she was not Jewish) was asking her out her mom said why not you are not going to marry him are you.  No pressure we thought we would just date and screw our way through college then go our seperate ways  Somewhere along the way we became best friends and married 26 years.
As for our swing friends well sorry folks we like the sex, after that some times we make friends (Can you really be friends with some before you have sex, when no matter what you talk about you are really only thinging about getting in their pants?) We if you don't turn us off (its not all about hard bodies, it's about personality and knowing how to laugh) we play often times we are suprised thoses we though were hot and wanted are hotter before you do them then after (those of you that just lay there no who you are right  ) Other times people that were not a big turn on to look at or who just were average are firecrackers and stars once they get naked with you. What they lack in other areas they make up for in skills to please.
Hay it's just sex worse case we have a funny story to tell (no names) and it's a been there done that. Best case not only is the sex great but after the pressure of the first time is out of the way we find that we even want to spend time with you dressed as you stimulate our mind as well as knowing how to stimulate our body. |
Sam & Tina,
What can we say, that you have not already figured out? We just are not the couple who is going to be hopping into bed before we & you take the time to know each other. If that is your particular modus operandi great for you! And normally it goes without saying that YOU have already found your "just right couple" in yourselves, or you really are going to be encountering some very difficult times in the lifestyle. This post wasn't about the happiness you have with your spouse, it is pointed toward the quest for the couple that you happen to engage in extra-marital fun with.
We are very happy that you have found, and continue to find just what it is you are looking for. Congratulations.